This week I participated in a number of blog carnivals. I recommend you take a look at these carnivals as they bring together some of the best personal finance minds on the web all in one place. Along with that they provide a wealth of ideas on all topics related to debt management, savings, frugality and money in general.

Here is the list

Rich Life carnival #14 hosted at Yourfinishrichplan.com

Carnival of debt reduction #161 – Fall Colors Edition hosted at Gatherlittlebylittle.com

Carnival of Credit Report Stories October 13 – hosted at La-va.com

Carnival of Money Stories #80 – hosted at outofdebtagain.com

Festival of Frugality #146 – hosted at Aridni.com

34^th Money Hacks Carnival – Fall into Savings hosted at whereyouarenow.com

6th Bankruptcy and Debt Carnival hosted at bankruptcyaccess.com

I hope you enjoy.

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I made the comment that the family attitude towards money seemed to be ‘Easy Come Easy Go’. My brother agreed however while I was focusing on the ‘Easy Go’ part of the statement he was focusing on the ‘Easy Come’ part. He made the excellent point that while most members of the family are spendthrifts none of them are in really serious financial difficulty.

This got me thinking.

I was focusing on the ‘Easy Go’ part of the statement and thinking about all the money I have spent over the years and all the expenses and debt repayments I now have. He was focused on the ‘Easy come’ part of the statement and when I asked him to explain and he told me that he was thinking about how money seems to easily come to the members of the family who spend a lot. He used a couple of examples where money seemed to appear out of nowhere like someone getting a big unexpected bonus at work.

He was right and the more I thought about it the more I began to realize that in general the people I know who have had difficulties with money are the very people who are uptight about money. They may read about the credit crisis and get stressed, they have effectively shut down their spending and become stressed about the flow of money into their lives.

On the other hand the people I know that aren’t having difficulties with money but yet still seem to be spending are those people who have a very relaxed attitude towards money.

I’m thinking out loud here but I reckon the reason why this seems to be the case is that people who have relaxed attitude towards money seem to take more risks and follow more potentially profitable opportunities. While people who are stressed about money seem to take fewer risks and try to maintain their financial status quo.

Take the example of a new job opportunity that pays well. The person who is relaxed about money would more than likely be prepared to take the risk and go for the job. The person who is uptight about money might not even consider applying for the new role for fear that it might upset their current employer should they ever find out.

This is a very simple example but I think it illustrates the difference between those who are stressed about money and those who are relaxed about money nicely.

The difference

The key difference seems to be the attitude to risk. The person who is relaxed about money knows that there are always plenty of money making opportunities and jobs out there for the person who is willing to work hard and take a risk. The person who is stressed about money is too focused on losing what they have and the current financial problems that they face that they do not even see the opportunities. As a result they stay stuck in a kind of financial limbo that only moves at the rate of inflation.

But I’ve got bills to pay

Me too and while I kind of figured that this was the way that money seem to work it wasn’t until I sat down and thought about it that I realized that attitude has a huge part to play in any financial situation.

Say you’re in debt like me and you’ve had a bad day at work and you arrive home to find a stack of bills. The misery just keeps piling on and no matter how sunny your disposition is there is a good chance that this will get to you. Fair enough. But you have a choice as to how you can respond to the situation. You can kick and scream at the unfairness of it all or you can simple say ‘I don’t feel up to dealing with this right now so I’m taking a time out and will deal with when I feel better’.

The truth is that when you are in debt the world tends to beat on you a lot more than if you weren’t in debt. The same problems that seemed easily dealt with before can seem insurmountable when you are in debt. That is the nature of the beast unfortunately and at the risk of sounding like a broken record the only true think that you have control over is your attitude.

What can I do?

Changing your attitude towards money takes time, patience and a lot of effort. I can only relay what I have read about it because in theory if my attitude towards money was brilliant then I would not be having problems with debt. So perhaps I’m not the best person to be asking. That said I can tell you from experience of what constitutes a bad attitude towards money if that will help?

So the idea here is to notice if you have similar thoughts. If you do then it might be the case that you need to look at your attitude towards money.

Ok so here goes.

You see someone with a fancy flash car and you think – they must be criminals.

You work hard yet get passed over for promotion and a colleague gets it instead. You think – they must be sleeping with the boss.

You receive a pile of bills but you ‘forget’ to pay them thinking that you can get away with it for another month.

You get angry at the credit card companies for charging you extortionate rates yet you knew exactly what the rates were when you signed up.

You ‘forget’ family and friends birthdays.

You live for today and adopt the ‘I could be dead tomorrow’ attitude. But wake up in two days time alive and well.

You don’t know how to get your bank balance.

You don’t know how much you owe on your credit cards and loans.

You expect some ‘manna from heaven’ i.e. some good fortune to come along and solve all your money problems in one go.

You try to match your neighbor in the lawnmower stakes. Mine is bigger than yours.

You try get rich quick schemes in the hope of making money but in the end you lose all your money.

This list is by no means complete. The point I am trying to make is that each of the thoughts and actions outlined above point to a case of bad financial attitude. If you have had some of these thoughts in the past don’t worry. Attitude is something that can be changed. So why not change yours?

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I always love reading new and original ideas when it comes to personal finance. It keeps me motivated when it comes to my own finances. There are only so many ways that you can say ‘Spend Less than you earn’ so hearing of new ways of saving and making money is always welcome.

I hope you enjoy the article – I certainly did.

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Yes that is exactly what I am saying.

For most people the thoughts of paying bills leaves them feeling decidedly poorer. I know it made me feel that way for a long time. When I first got into debt I remember cursing the bank for taking the money out of my account. I would put off paying creditors for as long as legally possible. I had a really tough time motivating myself to pay my bills.

I would dread receiving mail as I almost certainly always knew that there would be a bill or past due notice lurking among all the credit card offers. To log on to my bank account to transfer funds was a huge struggle.

Compare that with the way I react when I get a bill today.

I gather all my bills that I receive in any given week and I tackle them all on a Saturday morning. I log into my bank account and make transfers to pay the bills – the funds won’t arrive until Monday or Tuesday but I don’t mind as Saturday suits me best for doing this. As I pay each bill I mark it in big writing ‘PAID IN FULL’ and I put the date on it. If I have set up an automatic direct debit I make sure that the transaction has been made by my bank and then I mark the bill ‘PAID IN FULL’.

As I pay the bills I try to feel wealthy – not the easiest thing to do when you are neck high in debt but it can be done. I try to imagine that I have vast amounts of money and that I actually enjoy paying my bills. I try to look on paying my bills as part of the flow of money. If I send money out into circulation I know that it will eventually come back to me.

Okay I know that this kind of New Age thinking might not sit well with some of you but if you try it you will be surprised at how your imagination can create positive feelings of wealth. You don’t have to feel like a million dollars but even if you can feel say even just a little wealthier than you currently are then it will make a difference.

What’s the point?

I described this technique to a friend of mine who was in a similar financial situation to me. The response I got was ‘What’s the point Mike? I’m broke and no amount of mumbo jumbo positive thinking is going to make any difference’.

I could understand his frustration. Circumstances had been unkind to him but he wasn’t helping his situation by wallowing in self pity. The fact of the matter is that the more negative he got about his financial situation the more negative financial problems he got as a result.

I used to have a similar problem with negative self talk. It was a slow realization on my part that it was me who was causing a lot of unnecessary suffering by thinking negatively.

What changed?

Once I realized that I was causing a lot of my own suffering by having a negative attitude towards money things started to change. It occurred to me that money is neither good nor bad but rather it is a product of our feelings towards it. In other words money is what we make it in our minds.

If we create a mental image of money as something that is all powerful in our lives then I think we are giving too much of our personal power over to money. On the other hand if we do not treat money with respect then we end up losing it and in debt.

Now before I go on I want to point out that I am still on a journey of discovery here. I do not claim to know all the answers. In fact in relative terms I am only a novice to this whole ‘how much money you have is a product of your attitude’ way of thinking.

In theory it makes sense but I am still experimenting with it. I am still in debt so obviously I have not quite mastered the techniques involved. What I will say is that by paying my bills on time and without a negative attitude I have a lot less stress.

More money

The really interesting thing about paying my bills while trying to feel rich is that I do actually have more money as a result. The difference is only small but it is a positive difference. I don’t know what exactly caused the difference. I think it may have arisen from the fact that I don’t have as much of an interest charge or penalty fee from late payments. Also I think that because I have developed the habit of paying my bills at the same time every week I have become more disciplined in my spending.

Don’t question it – simply try it

Time for some field work, if you want to see if this whole positive attitude towards money works for you then I suggest that you simply try it for yourself. The next time you have a bill to pay try to pay the bill with a positive attitude and do not hold a grudge against your creditor. Simply pay the bill and try to feel rich when you do it. Wish your creditor well.

Give it time. Don’t expect a miracle. It might happen but the chances are slim so continue to indulge in positive thinking when it comes to paying your bills for at least one month. If after the month is up and you don’t notice any difference, try it for another month. Give it time.

Notice the small changes. Change won’t come all at once but rather in a series of smaller more subtle changes. You may notice that you have slightly more money in your bank account at the end of the month or that you aren’t as stressed when you get a bill.

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He knew it was coming. He was not ignorant to the ways of the world. In fact the reason he was in debt was because he had taken out a loan to invest in a business. He says it himself that he was trying to be too smart. He was trying to leverage his good credit score and good job to make some money.

Now I don’t know what you think about what he was trying to do. My feeling is that he deserves respect and admiration that he was willing to take a big risk (because we’re not talking small change here) to make money so that he could secure his and his families financial future. Others might argue that he should have left well enough alone as he already had a good job, some savings and a good credit score.

Anyway the fact of the matter is that he got himself into a bind. The business he invested in collapsed and he didn’t get any of his money back. For a period of about six months after the collapse he was okay because he was using his small savings to meet the loan repayments. All his cash ran out and his salary simply couldn’t cover both the loan repayments and the mortgage repayments.

Things started to get tight for him. Eventually it got to the stage where he was borrowing on his credit card to repay his loans. That source of funding eventually ran out as he hit his credit card limit. Somehow he was able to keep all this from his family as he was the one who looked after the finances.

Reality check

He knew the game was up when he received the past due notice from his bank. The sense of failure was overwhelming. Up until that point he had always maintained that once he could service his debt and keep the wolves from the door for one more month then he would be okay.

The problem that he faced was that while he was servicing his debt and living month to month every now and again unexpected expenses would occur. One of his kids might need to go to the doctor one month or his car might need new tyres. It was these unexpected events that pushed his finances over the edge and almost pushed him over the edge too.

His wife had noticed that there was something wrong and thought that he was having an affair. As a result he had to confess to the financial mess that he had gotten himself into. She was relieved that he wasn’t having an affair but upset that he felt he couldn’t talk to her about his problems. The upshot of it was that they decided to work through the financial problems together as a team.

A few adjustments

His wife agreed to go to back to working full time as the kids were now both in school. They figured that she would only need to do it for about eighteen months before their financial situation would be corrected.

Along with this change they made other small but significant changes to their lifestyles that allowed them to gain greater control over their expenses and income. I won’t bore you with the details as I have outlined similar changes in previous articles but suffice to say it involved being more frugal and starting an emergency fund.

They all lived happily ever after. The End.

And moral of the story is what Mike?

Ok the story came to a bit of an abrupt ending. The point wasn’t how it worked out for them in the end. The key point of the story and the thing I want you to think about is how easily he got seduced into thinking that his ability to service his debt was much stronger than it actually was.

His first mistake was that he thought that because he had a good job and a steady income that he could afford to take out a loan to invest in a business. There was simply too much risk involved and as a result when things went wrong his finances started to struggle. He should have used his savings to invest in the business and if he didn’t have the savings then he should have waited until he did have the savings before investing.

His second mistake was not getting help early enough. Pride before a fall. He had a big sense of pride and honour and a misplaced sense that he should be the sole breadwinner. That way of thinking is okay if we lived in the 1950’s but in today’s costly world it is very difficult to get by on one income even if the family is extremely frugal. Had he told his wife earlier on about the problems then thing might not have gotten so bad.

His third and final mistake was that once in debt he came to the conclusion that he could live paycheck to paycheck and somehow survive in the long term. He was living on a financial knife edge and it was only a matter of time before he fell off.

How many mistakes?

Of the three mistakes outlined above I have made them all – over and over again! My biggest mistake has definitely been my misplaced confidence in my ability to service my debts. Too often have I thought that I could earn more or save more or simply just magically pay off my debt each month. As the months would drag on by and I struggled to make the payments I soon would realize that all was not well in my financial story book.

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.

Well it took about eighteen months of trying before I finally began to realize what I was doing wrong. So I’m not sure what you could say about that – fool me eighteen times…shame on???

How confident are you in your ability to service your debts?

This is a question you need to answer as honestly as possible. While you might be able to meet your debt repayments at the moment, project your financial situation forward a year or two. Are you still confident that you will be able to service your debts then? How about it you lost your job? Or if you have lots of unforeseen expenses – would you still be able to service your debts?

If you have even the slightest reservation about your current or future ability to service your debts then now is the time to get real about it. There is no point in hiding from the problem because the longer you hide the more painful the readjustment to both your finances and your lifestyle will be when you do face up to the issue.

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The simple fact of the matter is that you have nothing more to worry about than usual and here’s why.

If you are in debt and owe the bank money and that bank goes bankrupt then you STILL owe the bank that money. You do NOT have your loans written off – in fact your loan is seen as an asset of the bank because it generates income for them. As a result your loan stays in place.

Unless you have thousands of dollars invested in the stockmarket, then your main concern should still be to repay your debts. On the other hand if you do have thousands of dollars invested in the stockmarket I would ask you, retirement funds aside, why haven’t you used these funds to pay down your debt?

No matter which way you cut it, your number one focus should still be on debt repayment.

Job losses

This is a legitimate concern but given the unstable nature of working life these days it was probably a concern you had long before now. It is true that if things continue the way that they are going then there will be a lot of people losing their jobs and not just on Wall Street. Even as it stands there are thousands of people who are losing their jobs each month.

To those of you who still have a job and are concerned about losing it I would say get your house in order. There is a reason why the motto of the Boy Scouts is ‘Be prepared’.  I wrote a previous article called ‘How long could you survive if you lost your job?’ that will help you understand what you need to do in order to weather the approaching storm.

Stick half of your head in the sand

This is the best advice I could give to someone who is worried about what is going on in the world today. I give this advice on the understanding that you have your financial affairs in order and that you are focusing on paying down your debts and building an emergency fund. I wrote an article called ‘Stop talking about recession, I don’t want to know’.

In this article I outline how I actually made some money during a recession by ignoring the negative financial self talk and hiding away from the bad news. It was a case of ‘ignorance is bliss’.

Nothing changes much

If you are on a debt freedom journey then do not allow a recession or talk of recession throw you off course. It is now more important than ever to be seeking debt freedom. At least that way if you are debt free (or at least on course to being debt free) and things get really bad you can be safe in the knowledge that you are in a much better position than a lot of people are. Ultimately whatever happens it is how well prepared you are that will determine what shape you will be in when you come out the other side.

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As part of my plan to get my finances under control I started to write down and record exactly how much money I spent and on what I spent it on. I didn’t make any attempt to curb my spending as I wanted to get a true understanding of where all my money was disappearing.

So each day I would write down exactly what I spent, where I spent it and who I was with when I spent it.

As I mentioned in a previous article this was an eye opening exercise. I was provided with a wealth of very useful information. To begin with I was spending way too much in local convenience stores close to my home. I then switched to larger discount stores on the edge of town for my shopping. I have saved a small fortune since.

One thing that stood out like a sore thumb to me was that I seemed to spend more on a Friday and a Saturday than on any other day of the week. Also I noticed that I seemed to spend a lot more on the Friday and Saturday after I got paid.

This got me thinking.

Why the heck was I spending more on these days? Ok you might think that I was doing more ‘stuff’ on these days, for example going out on a Friday night. This was true to a certain extent - I was spending more as a result of different activities. However even when I stripped out these different activities I was still spending a lot more than I would on an average day.

Mood enhancers = more shopping

A light bulb went off in my head eventually when I looked at what is different about these two days – Friday and Saturday – from the other days in the week.

As a member of a cubicle farm (i.e. an under appreciated office worker) I put extra significance on these two days. Simply put these are my favorite days of the week. I love Fridays because I am in anticipation of the weekend and the freedom to come and I love Saturdays because I am free and I still have half my weekend left to enjoy.

Since I love these days so much I am much happier on these days and my mood soars.

Now conventional wisdom has it that people tend to spend more when they are down and in a bad mood. The term ‘retail therapy’ is one that I would associate with someone who is in a bad mood and determined to shop their way out of it. But surprizingly I somehow managed to operate in reverse.

The happier I am the more I spend

The changes were only subtle – for example on a Friday I would buy a large coffee instead of a medium. I would be more inclined to eat out for lunch instead of either using the staff canteen or brown bagging my lunch. On Saturdays I would have both the means and motivation to spend more. I might eat breakfast in a nice café and lounge around reading the newspapers drinking a nice expensive coffee.

The thing about mood and spending money for me was that I always felt more confident in my ability to manage my money and earn more when I was in a good mood. I always thought that I was ‘allowed’ to spend more on Fridays and Saturdays since I had put in a week’s work and I deserved a treat.

Oh how we are the masters of our own downfall.

Time for a change

I realized that my logic was flawed and that I needed to correct this behavior if I was ever to get on top of my debt.

Once I made the connection between my good mood and my increased spending I tried to increase my alertness on the days in question. On both Fridays and Saturdays I would try to be extra vigilant for overspending.

If I’m honest I found it tough. The fact that my nice comforting weekend spending routines were stopped did actually dampen my mood.

Was it too extreme?

I personally don’t think it was. Sure I didn’t enjoy my weekends as much since I wasn’t spending anywhere near the amount of money that I had been. But on the flip side the stress of worrying about my finances was in time greatly reduced. I began to feel a little better on a Monday morning and not feel like I was trapped in a job I didn’t like just to pay my debt.

Sure some of you will probably argue that I did deserve a little treat as it was the weekend and I would agree. However I was spending way too much on these ‘treats’. I did continue to treat myself at the weekend but I did in ways that didn’t cost much.

How does your mood affect your spending habits?

I’m interested in getting feedback from readers about how their mood affects their spending habits. Does it have any affect on your spending? Do you spend more when you are in a bad mood or like me when you are in a good mood? How do you manage your moods and in turn control your finances?

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In my previous article on bad debt I made the point that a debt is good if it adds value to your life. If you can see no long term value from your debt then it is a bad debt and should be avoided if possible.

I gave the example of a holiday and I said that it is a bad debt because it doesn’t add any long term value to your life and to who you are. After two weeks away all you have is an empty wallet and some nice memories.

Now don’t think I’m against going on holidays what I am against is going into debt to go on holidays.

Hierarchy of bad debt

Within the category of bad debt there exists a hierarchy of badness. To me there are differing degrees of badness in bad debt. The different degrees are based on what I call the physical element of the debt.

If you have acquired a bad debt in order to purchase something physical such as a car or a TV then you have something to show for your money. The amount the item is worth may be significantly less than you owe on it but it still retains some of its value. On the other hand if you acquired debts to purchase something that is non-physical such as a holiday or dining out then you have a problem. The problem is that there is no value remaining in that item.

Gambling debts – the worse kind of bad debt

Gambling debts are the worst form of debt. There are a number of reasons why this is the case. The first and most obvious is that there is absolutely nothing to show for the debt. What do you have? An expensive thrill that lasts for about ten minutes? At least if you buy a car you have something physical to show for it that you can sell to recoup some if not all of your expense. With gambling debts you have nothing to sell or show for it.

Gambling promotes a type of behavior that is risk loving and somewhat removed from the financial realities of life. I’m not going to go all moral on you now. I have been to Las Vegas and I had a really good time. I knew my limits and I had a budget for my gambling. Gambling small insignificant amounts is fun but it is so easy for it to spill over into something more sinister and dangerous for your finances.

However bad being in debt is (and I’m not trying to belittle it) to me I would imagine that being in debt due to a gambling addiction would be a whole lot worse. Not only have you a debt problem but you also have an addiction problem.

You may start out gambling money you can afford to lose.  Once in the grip of the gambling buzz the temptation to borrow to gamble is just too strong. Once in debt the logic becomes something like – ‘I’ll need to keep gambling in order to pay off my debts’ – and so the spiral continues. There may be the occasional win but in the long run the game is stacked against there gambler.

Here is a link to an article on the USATODAY website – “Gambling madness can snag court fans”. This article paints a very depressing picture of the damage that gambling can do.

I think that the article says it all.

If you think that you may have a problem with gambling then please try to get help. Trying to get out of debt while still addicted to gambling is a huge challenge and almost certainly destined for failure. The reason why is because the lure of ‘one more shot and I can win’ will always sucker the gambler. Tackling the gambling addiction first is the key to getting out of debt and more importantly staying out of debt.

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We use material things to project an image of ourselves out into the world. If we want to portray a successful image we might buy a nice big shiny car. These type of cars generally cost us a lot of money but hey what the heck we’re successful aren’t we? We can take the finance offer and pay the car back in nice manageable monthly instalments.

So what does your car say about you?

What image are you trying to portray?

Who are you trying to impress?

Unfortunately sometimes we can get this wrong. My advice?

Tone down your Life

Or more specifically tone down your car.

Before we go on I want to make clear that I’m not trying to beat up on anyone here. I’m not trying to belittle hopes, dreams or aspirations of any readers. What I am trying to do is to help you build a sound financial foundation upon which you can achieve them.

Why burden yourself with stuff that you don’t necessarily need? I mean a car is a car is a car. The ultimate use of any car is to get you from A to B. Ok I understand that there is a whole image thing tied up with the car but are you that self conscious and lacking in self confidence that you feel the need to compensate for it by driving a big pointless car?

To me the coolest person on the block is the person who can jump into a beat up car and have the confidence to drive it around all the while not caring about what people think about them.

Easy to do?

No way!

I’m as self conscious as the next person and while my car might be six years old I make sure that it is always looking nice and polished. I made the mistake in the past of thinking that a car could somehow improve my social standing.

When I first started working I made the mistake of buying a nice new car. Girls love guys with nice cars right? Well to be honest I couldn’t really afford the car and as a result I never felt 100% comfortable driving it. Since I didn’t feel comfortable driving the car it always seemed that I was driving someone else’s car. Which is true - I was driving someone else’s car. I was driving the finance company’s car. Not a nice feeling.

The problem I had was that I hated not having any money at the end of the month more than I liked the car. Sure it was a really nice car but it was also a car that I couldn’t afford.

I had the car for eighteen months before I decided to get rid of it. I lost money on the transaction but I wasn’t too worried as I simply wanted out of the expensive repayments. I paid off the loan and I bought a much smaller and cheaper car. Not the coolest car by a long shot but cheap to run and it got me from A to B.

Sure I got some jokes in my direction about downsizing but to be honest they didn’t hurt half as much as the monthly repayments were hurting.

Mind over matter

If you don’t mind it don’t matter. So if you are comfortable with the car that you are driving then it shouldn’t matter what other people say. No I know it’s not easy. I struggled with the thought of changing my nice car for a less nice car for a long time. But I got there in the end. I resigned myself to the fact that if I ever wanted to have some sort of financial future that didn’t involved a debt overload then I needed to start cutting. My car was the biggest and most obvious choice to start with.

How about you?

Could you downsize your car? Could you put up with the jokes from so called friends and colleagues? Better still could you get rid of your car completely?

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The more complex the advice the more valuable it is to me.

I know its very strange logic but I think a lot of us have been wired that way. Take diets for example. Its common knowledge that if you want to lose weight you need to consume fewer calories than you use up during any given day. So simply eat less. However if everyone thought it were that simple then there would be no multi-billion dollar diet industry.

I think as humans we need to feel that when we have a problem we need a unique and magical solution to solve it. A simple straightforward solution just won’t cut it.

A lesson learnt

When I first started to get serious about debt I started to research how to solve my debt problem. I was confronted with a myriad of solutions, everything from debt consolidation to debt management plans. I was looking for some magic bullet.

One piece of advice that kept coming up again and again was simply

‘Spend less than you earn’

Simple right?

It was not good enough for me though. I wanted something that said ‘buy XYZ software package and your debts will repay themselves’ or ‘refinance all your debts and have only one small monthly payment’.

Eventually I came round to the simple way of looking at my debt.

‘Spend less than you earn’

This brought me to my next problem. How much was I spending?

How much?

I had no idea how much I was spending. All that I knew was that at the end of every month my bank account was always in overdraft and my credit card balance had increased.

At the time I remember reading another piece of really simple advice in the personal finance book Your Money or Your life. The advice was to write down and record absolutely everything that you buy everyday. Be exact in your figures, record it to the cent.

This was a compelling idea for me. It was so simple that anyone could do it. At the same time the sceptical part of me was thinking that it was a bit too simple.

Anyway for one month I recorded everything that I bought. I had a little pocket book with a small pencil on a string attached to it. Every time that I bought something I would write it down. I didn’t let anyone see what I was doing and I would wait until I was alone before I would record the expenses. I didn’t want to be marked as some kind of crazy note taking type of guy.

What happened?

Being the dutiful geek that I am I created an excel spreadsheet to formally record my expenses. This is where it got interesting.

On my spreadsheet I had what I called a fixed costs column; these fixed costs included my loan repayments, my rent, my car loan etc. Basically my fixed costs were items that I had to pay each month or face trouble. Then in a second column I had what I called variable costs. These were the cost that I was tracking every day in my expenses notebook. These included items such as newspapers, coffees, lunches…you get the idea.

Prior to tracking all my expenses I would have estimated that my variable costs were probably about $200 a week. I was in for a big shock. When I tallied up my variable costs the average I spent per week on them was $420. Unbelievable!

I was spending more than twice what I thought I was spending on discretionary items. This was a serious wake up call. When I examined what I was spending most of my money on a few things became clear. I was spending a small fortune buying gourmet coffees and the daily newspapers.

More interesting though was that I did most of my food shopping at convenience stores that were close to where I lived. Convenience stores by their very nature tend to be much more expensive than large supermarkets on the edge of town. You pay the extra money for the convenience of the convenience stores. Generally they tend to open much later and they are usually very well located in urban areas.

What next?

I adopted the simplest solutions I could think of. I cut down on the coffees and newspapers but more importantly I started to do all my food shopping in the large supermarkets. I continue to record all my expenses in my notebook and in the month that followed my weekly average spend was $270 – a major improvement.

Once I was on the right track I began to gradually cut my discretionary expenses further and further until I got to the point where my bank balance at the end of the month, while not very much, was positive.

Simple is usually best

It took me a long time to realize that the best and most effective solution to my debt problem was the simplest. For too long I was lost in a world of false promises and advertising overload. It was a painful process for me to recognize that I was wrong in my thinking and in my search for some new fangled complex solution.

How about you? Are there things in your life that you are trying too hard to solve? Are you looking at ultra complex solutions for problems that could be solved more effectively and efficiently with a simpler solution?

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