Affluenza – the credit party is over
So now that the easy credit party is over and we are all feeling the effects of the debt hangover the question I have is ‘was it worth it?’. Were the few short years of fast living and easy money worth the pain we are feeling now?
I’m as guilty as the next person of over indulgence – if I wasn’t I wouldn’t be writing this blog about trying to understand and make sense of debt.
I have often wondered what led to the furious spending and house buying that we have witnessed in the last few years. I think that while easy credit played a huge part in the madness there must have been something else at play. I always got the feeling that there was almost a collective agreement in society that it was good to spend your way to oblivion. Tacit approval to use your credit card was everywhere. Everyone else was doing. It was the case that ‘we are all in this together’ so don’t feel bad.
Then about a year ago I came across the concept of ‘Affluenza’. I thought that it was just the latest buzz word and would soon be consigned to the annals of history but then I dug a little deeper. The concept of affluenza was a perfect fit for that collective urge to spend that I had felt a part of.
Taken from Wikipedia.
affluenza n. 1. The bloated, sluggish and unfulfilled feeling that results from efforts to keep up with the Joneses. 2. An epidemic of stress, overwork, waste and indebtedness caused by the pursuit of the American Dream. 3. An unsustainable addiction to economic growth.
I couldn’t agree more with the definition above.
In reality we were taking part in a competition that we could never win. There was always going to be someone with a faster car or bigger house than us. It was a giant ponzi scheme and we are the suckers who will have to pay the price.
I’m not bitter and I don’t think you should be either. Ultimately it was through my own decisions that I ended up in debt. Had I don’t things differently I wouldn’t have this debt problem. Being bitter about your situation serves no purpose. Sure you want someone to blame and lash out at but in the end the answer is always the same. It was you who signed up for the good stuff and now you must take the bad stuff that comes with it.
Take the rage and anger you have at your situation and use it as the driving force to get you out of debt and cure you of affluenza. Channel that negative energy and get some positive out of it. Show the banks and financial institutions that while you may have been a little naïve in your spending that they won’t be able to count on your contribution to their bottom line.
The theory and research into affluenza are fascinating. If you want to learn more about what affluenza is and why and how it has such an impact then I recommend you read this book. Get it from the library or buy it second hand on amazon.
Affluenza: The All-Consuming Epidemic (Bk Currents)
As a cure for affluenza I can’t recommend the following book highly enough. This book takes a very different approach to personal finance. You will like it – its far from your average dry and boring personal finance book.
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