Do we have a moral obligation to pay our debt?

Moral obligation is defined as “A duty which one owes, and which one ought to perform, but which one is not legally bound to fulfil.”

With debt you are legally bound to pay but do you also have a moral obligation to pay? If you simply avoid paying your debts by say filing for bankruptcy would you feel guilty? Or would you just carry on as if nothing happened?

Most people’s initial reaction would be that we do have a moral obligation to pay our debt. It is this moral obligation that causes a lot of people mental anguish as they struggle with their debts. Wouldn’t it be nice if we could just walk away from our debts and not think twice about it?

Sometimes I hear the attitude that credit card companies and banks have been making a fortune from us on the back of high interest payments – wouldn’t it be nice to get one over on them? I don’t know how comfortable I am with this attitude. I am a firm believer in karma and what goes around comes around. If I were to default on my debts without making any attempt to pay them back then one very obvious consequence for me is that my credit rating will be shot to bits.

So where does this leave the question of moral obligation? The reality is that if you have debt but have no money then moral obligation or not you are not going to be able to pay your debt. The feeling of moral obligation is just going to hinder your progress with coming to an arrangement with your creditors. You are just going to be weighed down by this and won’t progress until you have resolved this inner conflict.

My feeling is that if you can honestly stand up and say that you have done everything in your power to pay off your debts and that you have explored every avenue to find a solution then I think that you can move away from the notion that you have a moral obligation to pay your debts. Of course you still have your legal obligations but you can go into any arrangement with your creditors with the feelings that you tried your best and unfortunately things did not work out for you.

The feelings of moral obligation are entirely a personal thing. Some people will feel little moral obligation to pay their debts especially if they have been treated badly by banks or feel that they have in some way been duped into taking on more credit. For most others the thoughts of not paying their debts cause allsorts of internal feelings of dread and worry.

In order to effectively tackle your debts then you need to decide where you stand on the position of moral obligation. This is entirely a personal choice. It doesn’t matter what other people say or do because at the end of the day it is you who will be carrying the can.

Once you have decided on your position then act accordingly. But don’t try to cheat your creditors if you think you can or want to. That will surely lead you to a place where you certainly don’t want to be. If you don’t feel morally obliged to pay your debts then go about arranging a legal agreement that suits all parties if possible. Just because you might feel that you want to get back at your creditors don’t end up making things worse for yourself. Effectively you will be cutting off your nose to spite your face.

If you do feel morally obliged to pay off your debts then use it as a motivating force. Don’t succumb to the negative thinking that your creditors are out to get you. Make a pact with yourself that you will do everything in your power to pay off your debts as soon as you can. However, one thing you must avoid is self flagellation. If things don’t go your way and you end up not paying your debts and in bankruptcy – don’t beat yourself up. Be happy that you did your best and instead use that energy to propel yourself through the tough times.